A Person Around You Is Hiding Strong Feelings for You

HELP ME REACH MY FIRST 1000 SUBSCRIBERS ✅    / @letters-from-silas   Why is he so inconsistent with you. Not cruel. Not cold. Inconsistent, which is worse, because cruelty at least tells you where you stand. You have had an explanation for months and it has not held up, or you would not still be thinking about this at eleven at night. 🤍 This letter is about what the pattern actually is. Warm and then formal. Reasons to be near you, and then strangely stiff once he arrives. Remembering something you said once, then going three weeks without a word. Feelings that cost nothing get expressed. Feelings that would cost something get contained, and containment looks exactly like the thing you have been trying to decode. The distance right after a good conversation is not him losing interest. It is a man who noticed how much he enjoyed himself and got frightened by the reading. But here is the honest part, because this is not the turn you are hoping for. A hidden feeling is not a promise. Whatever is stopping him is real, and it will not lift because you are patient enough or warm enough or understanding enough. This letter is for the woman stuck in the gap between an accurate read and a real future, who deserves to stop calling herself paranoid and start watching what he does instead of what she can decode. 🕊️ If someone came to mind while you listened, say the one thing about the pattern you noticed first in the comments. Not to work him out. Just to hear yourself say plainly what you already know.