How To Actually Make People Like You Without Being Loud

How to actually make people like you without being loud. You don’t need to be funny, impressive, or the center of attention. Here’s the psychology behind why people like you more than you think, and three small habits that make you easy to be around. In this video: 0:00 The replay at the sink 0:47 Why the usual charisma advice fails 1:15 The liking gap: people like you more than you think 1:45 Why you grade yourself mid-conversation 2:27 Habit 1: Ask the follow-up 3:36 Habit 2: Tell them what you noticed 4:41 Dan, the “I love that guy” guy 5:17 Habit 3: Say the small honest thing first 6:11 Bonus: why showing up again works 6:42 The one question to take into every conversation 7:04 The honest cost Which of the three will you try this week? Tell me in the comments. If you like understanding why people act the way they do, and then actually using it, subscribe. #socialskills #charisma #introvert