She Stopped Chasing Her Avoidant Fiancé. He Came Back Crying in 6 Weeks

She stopped chasing her avoidant fiancé—and two months later, he came back. In this success story, Coach Craig Kenneth and Coach Victoria break down the anxious-avoidant cycle that slowly pushed this couple apart. After nearly four years together, living together, getting engaged, and planning a wedding, the relationship suddenly ended. Her fiancé became cold, told her there was no chance of repairing things, and even told her to “get a hint.” Instead of continuing to chase, explain, or convince him, she began learning about her anxious attachment, rebuilding her identity, spending time with friends, and becoming better at managing her fear of abandonment. As she changed the pattern and gave him space, his defenses began to come down. Six weeks after the breakup, he broke down crying and admitted that he missed her, loved her, and thought about her every day. By week eight, he revealed that many of the cold things he said during the breakup had been a defense mechanism. Eventually, he asked her to be his girlfriend again. This story is a powerful reminder that giving someone space is not the same as losing them—and that working on yourself is never wasted, regardless of whether your ex comes back. Want Craig's help personally? Easy! Goto our website and sign up for coaching: https://www.askcraig.net/take-action/ Get Victoria's help personally for coaching at: https://www.askcraig.net/victoria Interested in growing in No Contact? Start his Workbooks or Creative Healing Course! Craig's workbook series are here: https://www.askcraig.net/workbooks-1/ Get Started on the Creative Healing Course: https://courses.askcraig.net/ Craig is also podcasted on all major platforms! And you can find him on Instagram @CoachCraigKenneth