Why Good Women Feel So Alone Today (And How to Fix It) w/Adam Lane Smith | E348 Lila Rose Show

Many men and women today feel existentially isolated and alone, even if they're surrounded by loving people. Attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith has been seeing this problem grow for years, and today he shares 4 steps to build vibrant, secure attachment with ourselves, others, and God to bring meaning and joy back to our lives. -Link to Adam's website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ -Link to Private Coaching: https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/priv... -Link to attachment Quiz: https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/atta... Join our Caeli waitlist: https://joincaeli.com/ NEW: Check out our Merch store! https://shop.lilaroseshow.com/ Join our new Patreon community!   / lilaroseshow   - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, and early access to our upcoming guests. A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading religious network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors: -EveryLife Women: https://www.everylife.com/lila Buy diapers and women’s health products from an amazing company and use code LILA10 to get 10% off! -Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee and Save up to 25% with promo code 'LILA' & get a free gift: http://www.sevenweekscoffee.com -Presidio Healthcare: Healthcare and doctors who share your values. Visit: https://www.presidiocare.com/lila -We Heart Nutrition: https://www.weheartnutrition.com/ Get high quality vitamin supplements for 20% off using the code LILA. 00:00:18 - Intro 00:01:08 - Understanding Lindsay Clancy trial 00:03:22 - Women on the edge of snapping: 00:08:44 - Modern suburbia is deadly 00:12:38 - How generational trauma affects our genes: 00:14:15 - Why women don’t want children: 00:17:08 - How much of this is “real”? 00:19:55 - Fight, Flight, or FREEZE 00:23:33 - A development in attachment science: Quiet Disorganized 00:28:49 - How Adam started noticing this pattern: 00:33:05 - What are the signs of Quiet Disorganized? 00:38:13 - How attachment affects faith and spirituality 00:39:38 - What the eastern world can teach us: 00:44:08 - How this affects our relationship with the Holy Spirit 00:47:01 - The first step toward the solution: 00:50:15 - Scrupulosity, Anxious Attachment, and Psychology 00:52:40 - How to diagnose Quiet Disorganized 00:58:26 - How to enjoy motherhood: 01:00:03 - Secure attachment is necessary to know God’s love 01:01:52 - What’s consistent about every conversion story: 01:03:21 - 4 steps for becoming secure: 01:06:52 - 12 Steps and Attachment 01:09:33 - The first step to healing, simplified: 01:13:55 - What the Garden of Eden teaches us: 01:19:18 - Most Christians pray like a voicemail: 01:21:12 - How Prayer Can Heal our Attachment [clip] 01:25:25 - How long does this process take? 01:27:17 - An example of healing: