How to FLIRT at the gym...SOLO trips, & the power of EYE CONTACT | Ep 19 - Not For Everyone | Ep. 19

EP 19 - NOT FOR DOING LIFE TOGETHER *** Turns out the hater is a lover and the lover is a hater as Jess and Caroline reunite after a week apart. Caroline shares how her recent solo trip helped her rediscover her easygoing, minimal-complaint self; meanwhile, Jess unleashes a list of things she hates that she was just waiting to discuss with her brother king. In her three-pronged takedown of the most recent [AI] Bachelor, Jess talks about why "being nice to waiters" is the most unoriginal and unhelpful criteria for picking a partner. She then describes the anger she feels when people use the phrase "do life together," and concludes with a quick roast of the word "cuss." Caroline gives an update on the sweetie pie from her gym - henceforth known as My Little Pony - and Jess talks her through ways to casually ask him out. This leads into a conversation about chatting and making eye contact with strangers, and the giggly mess that sometimes follows. In conclusion, the podcast can end now that Instagram's blue checkmarks can be bought; Jess has a book company anyway. *** Not for Everyone is an existential commentary podcast hosted by one hater (Caroline Winkler) and one lover (Jess DeBakey), with new episodes every Thursday. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5f9AtKs... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... And everywhere else: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... *** And FOLLOW US on Instagram for more: @not4everyonepod @thegoodsitter @jzdebakey *** Contents of this Video 00:00 - Intro 1:20 - Caroline's solo trip 10:45 - the biggest test for yourself 19:55 - Jess's solo podcast episode 22:00 - Jess's complaints about The Bachelor 30:03 - everyone needs to stop saying this 37:50 - Caroline saw her gym flirt again 44:00 - being awkward around your crush 50:20 - Caroline loves gaslighting. 55:40 - firehouse kinks 1:01:10 - why does everyone want to be famous on Instagram 1:06:55 - working on our smells 1:09:00 - Jess is an author *** 𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐌𝐄𝐑 All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or mental health professionals, or really professional of any kind. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe! Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA #podcast #selfhelp #comedy #thebachelor #instagram #bestfriends