How Women Really Feel About Men | MENtality With Ebuka ft Banky W, Toolz and Toke Makinwa

In the first ever episode with women, multi-award winning media personalities Toolz and Toke Makinwa join Ebuka and Banky W for a candid and fun conversation that turns the spotlight around, about masculinity, relationships, and modern manhood. If MENtality seeks to explore what it means to be a man today, then understanding the perspectives of women is an essential part of that journey. This episode examines how women truly perceive men's emotional maturity, leadership, vulnerability, communication, and the evolving expectations placed on them within relationships and society. Together, the guests explore the emotional labour women often carry in relationships, the changing dynamics between men and women in modern Nigeria, and the realities of navigating love, partnership, ambition, and personal growth in a rapidly evolving cultural landscape. The discussion also challenges outdated gender stereotypes, questioning whether traditional expectations of masculinity still serve today's dynamics and what healthier, more balanced partnerships can look like. At the heart of the conversation is one compelling question: What do women actually want from men today? Rather than offering a single answer, the episode presents honest perspectives on trust, emotional availability, accountability, consistency, respect, shared responsibility, and the qualities that help build meaningful, lasting relationships. Connect with the Hosts: • Ebuka – Instagram, X: @Ebuka • Banky W – Instagram: @bankywellington • MENtality Podcast – Instagram: @mentalitywithebuka Listen & Subscribe: • YouTube – / @ebuka • Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... • Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/69LySGB... Join the Conversation: Use #MENtalityWithEbuka Rate & Review the show MENtality With Ebuka is a production of Knight & Sheriff and EME.