點解世界嘅愛可以咁短暫 ｜Tea Talk with Toby｜Jade Kwan 關心妍｜Ep 72｜將痛變成祝福

今次請咗Jade關心妍上嚟傾偈。 佢入行兩年就上到紅館，覺得擁有全世界。但一瞬間，因為一啲新聞，所有嘢都可以消失。朋友冇咗，問候冇咗。最痛嘅，係你明明唔係嗰種人，但全世界都認定你係。細個經歷過爸爸離開，到廿幾歲又要再面對「被拋棄」嘅感覺，佢話真係好唔明，點解世界嘅愛可以咁短暫。 信仰同慈善，救咗佢，喺最黑暗嘅時候，佢開始去做義工。佢發現，原來幫到人，自己係好開心嘅。嗰啲傷害，慢慢咁heal。佢話：「原來呢個世界唔係淨係得娛樂圈，出便嘅世界真係好大。」當你見到世界上有咁多苦難，你自己嘅問題原來唔係咁大。 由被誤解到去祝福別人，到今日，廿幾年前批評佢嘅人依然喺度批評緊佢。但佢再睇嗰啲說話，已經唔會hurt到佢。佢反而會send返一句：「耶穌愛你，祝福你。」 十年慈善路，唔係為咗證明畀人睇，Jade話，佢做慈善唔係為咗證明畀全世界睇佢係好人。「I cannot prove who I am.」以前會好小心，驚死做少咗人哋會點諗。但後來發現，咁樣好辛苦。最後佢話：「我淨係對得住神就得㗎喇。」 將痛變成祝福，到今日睇返轉頭，佢終於明白，神要佢經歷呢一切，係為咗strengthen佢嘅生命。而家我睇返，原來每一個經歷，都可以去鼓勵好多人。」佢好感謝自己行過呢啲痛嘅路。因為佢知道，當有人正經歷緊同樣嘅痛，佢可以話畀佢聽：「你行得過嘅話，你就會搵到你另外一個舞台。」 《回家》音樂會，今次音樂會，係因為兒童之家嘅小朋友，大部分都冇屋企，或者有家歸不得。佢哋最想要嘅，係一個家。Jade希望透過音樂會，畀大家知道，喺神嘅愛裏面，你可以搵到一個家。雖然門票已經售罄，但係只要捐$100就可以喺網上面睇到㗎啦，大家都可以一齊支持吓啦！ So happy to have Jade on the show today! Jade made it to the HK coliseum in just two years and felt like she had the whole world. But in an instant, because of some news, everything disappeared. Friends gone. The most painful part wasn't losing the fame, it was that you know you're not that kind of person, but the whole world has decided you are. She grew up with her dad leaving, then in her twenties faced that feeling of being "abandoned" all over again. She couldn't understand why love could be so short-lived. Faith and charity saved her. In her darkest moment, she started volunteering. Helping others actually made her happy. Those wounds slowly healed. She said, "Turns out the world isn't just the entertainment industry, there's a whole big world out there." When you see how much suffering there is, your own problems don't seem so big. From being misunderstood to blessing others. Even today, people who criticized her 20 years ago are still criticizing her. But now it doesn't hurt. Instead she sends back, "Jesus loves you, blessings." 10 years of charity, not to prove anything. Jade doesn't do charity to prove she's a good person. "I cannot prove who I am." She used to be so careful, scared people would talk. But that was exhausting. In the end she said, "As long as I'm right with God, that's enough." Her charity is 10 years old this year, and she hasn't stopped once. She said, "When you're successful, when you have gifts, if you don't share them, you won't find that eternal joy." Turning pain into blessings. Looking back, she finally understands God let her go through all this to strengthen her. The concert. Most kids at the children's home don't have a family, or can't go back to one. What they want most is a home. Jade hopes through this concert, everyone will know that in God's love, you can find a home.