The Hidden Patterns That Make You Succeed at Work But Fail at Love | Ingeborg Mooiweer

Ingeborg is an executive coach with over 35 years of experience helping high-achieving leaders break the hidden patterns that make them exceptional at work but struggling in their personal lives. She works with executives who have built successful careers, influence, and results — yet still can’t seem to create the kind of love life or inner peace they actually want. Her work goes deep: she explores what she calls “survival codes” — patterns formed early in life that quietly shape how we lead, love, and relate as adults. Often the same patterns that helped us succeed professionally are the ones sabotaging our closest relationships. In this honest conversation, Ingeborg shares: • What success looked like in her 20s and what was happening beneath the surface • Growing up with a narcissistic mother and the trauma that followed • Moving to London and reclaiming freedom after a difficult childhood • What survival codes really are and how they form • Why the patterns that help you succeed at work can sabotage love and peace • How to begin recognizing and breaking these lifelong patterns • Why healing usually requires guidance and emotional safety If you’re in your 20s building a career while noticing repeating struggles in relationships or inner peace, this episode offers deep insight and real hope for change. Timestamps below ⬇️ #Ingeborg #SurvivalCodes #ExecutiveCoaching #Relationships #ConversationsWithSekani Connect with Ingeborg Mooiweer Website :http://www.metamindbreakthrough.com/ LinkedIn:  / ingeborgmooiweer   If conversations with Sekani sparks something in you, do well to share to someone who you think might need this. Subscribe so you don’t miss new episodes. If you have a minute leaving a review helps more people discover these everyday unique voices and the insight they carry. Your support means the world. Want to be a guest on Conversation with Sekani? Send a message to Joy https://www.podmatch.com/member/conve... Chapters 0:00 - Intro & Welcome Ingeborg 1:40 - Success and Emotional Reality in Her 20s 8:15 - Leaving Home at 16 and Childhood Trauma 15:30 - Moving to London and Reclaiming Freedom 23:10 - What Survival Codes Really Are 31:45 - How Childhood Patterns Shape Adult Life 40:20 - Why Success at Work Can Sabotage Relationships 48:50 - How to Begin Breaking These Patterns 57:15 - Healing, Emotional Safety & What’s Possible