How not to do marriage: Pain & unforgiveness

Thank you so much for all the love, kindness and support in response to my last video. I hope this video can be just as encouraging and thought provoking. I’m no stranger to pain and I can confidently say that letting go of pain and choosing forgiveness has given me more peace than the pain I initially felt. It’s not been an easy road as you can see, it’s contributed to the loss of my marriage but you can’t do better unless you know better. I didn’t know (or think) it was possible for me to have experienced the things I have over the past few years so I didn’t know how to deal with them when they transpired. Those years have taught me that anything can happen to anyone at any given moment and so I need to learn to let go of my pain, be completely forgiving not fake forgiving and keep choosing love. Or my happiness will be dependant on my circumstances which is such an enslaved way to live. There’s a lot to be set on this topic so I may do a party but for now I hope I can inspire you to do the same ❤️