I think this is why you need to stop making excuses for abusers

Supporting abusers is a choice that affects your safety. We need to talk about why standing by toxic behavior is never acceptable. It is alarming how often we see people excusing harmful patterns from public figures. Whether it involves R Kelly, Chris Brown, or others, ignoring these red flags creates a culture where silence is expected, and that is a dangerous standard to set. Accountability culture is about more than just calling people out; it is about protecting our own well-being. This is a personal look at why supporting abusers is fundamentally unsafe, especially regarding safety for women. We have to be willing to walk away from creators, icons, AND family members who do not align with our values. Subscribe for more personal reflections on life and culture, and let me know in the comments how you navigate setting boundaries with the media you consume. 💜 💜 TOOLS & RESOURCES I USE and LOVE: 💜 💜 🌱 Save $100 on a Gardyn hydroponic garden + interest-free payment plans! Link in bio 💚 https://link.gardynpartners.com/CX4LT... 🥰 🔗 Check out the micro tomato seeds I planted, on their website here: https://www.tomatofest.com. 🔗 Check out my personally curated recommendations, on Benable here: https://benable.com/keshagregory 🔗 My Amazon recommendations here: □ Jack’s citrus feed 20-10-20: https://geni.us/G1Kay0W (Amazon) □ Bioadvanced insecticide: https://geni.us/gzspslv (Amazon) □ Jack’s professional 25-5-15 high performance: https://geni.us/AbJg (Amazon) □ Azamax: https://geni.us/LJHwt (Amazon) □ Fish fertilizer: https://geni.us/vmAna (Amazon) □ Digital pH tester: https://geni.us/A8Qj (Amazon) □ Liqui-dirt: https://geni.us/EPTA3j (Amazon) □ Castile soap: https://geni.us/BpFjB (Amazon) □ Fungus gnat traps: https://geni.us/f6Tpd (Amazon) □ Katchy indoor insect trap: https://geni.us/xITzxBu (Amazon) □ Fast growing trees invitation link: https://fastgrowingtreesco.refr.cc/FV... □ Camera used - DJI pocket 3: https://geni.us/AIysXfA (Amazon) □ Computer used - Apple M4 Pro chip with 14-core CPU, 20-core GPU □ Edited with - Davinci Resolve 20 □ Keyword research for YouTube (TubeBuddy) - https://www.tubebuddy.com/Keshagregory □ Email provider (FloDesk) - https://flodesk.com/c/2PG33Y □ Graphic Editing/Designs (Canva) - https://www.canva.com/join/mgl-fnt-xcy Please be sure to like and subscribe! 🔗 Join my email list to get all of my updates! https://keshagregory.myflodesk.com/li... 🔗 My website: https://keshagregory.com If you would like to buy me a coffee or donate: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/keshagre... 🟣 DISCLAIMER: 🟣 I am a member of Affiliate programs so this description may contain affiliate links for Amazon and other companies. I am sharing items, tools, and/or resources that I love and use. You won't get charged extra for your items but I may receive a small commission from your purchase, which helps with our content creation. 0:00 The Controversy Surrounding Public Support 1:22 Drawing the Line on Musical Consumption 3:04 Critiquing Public Figures and Their Choices 5:37 The Consequences of Harmful Actions 10:59 Decency Over Celebrity Influence