Private Relationship, Public Heartbreak: How to Know He Really Loves You | Pastor Bolaji Idowu

Private relationship, public heartbreak. How do you really know someone loves you? In this message at Harvesters, Pastor Bolaji Idowu gives a simple love and chemistry checklist: someone who loves you is mindful of you, finds it easy to give, forgives without keeping a box of your wrongs, commits instead of saying "let's see how it goes", talks to you with respect, and is proud to show you off instead of saving you as "guy from church" or "baby 2" in their phone. Then he describes three kinds of men every lady should recognise: hunters, predators and farmers. Watch it before your next "what are we doing?" conversation, and share it with a friend who needs it. May God give you a love that remembers you, gives to you, forgives you and is proud to stand with you, in Jesus' name. Amen. 1 Corinthians 13:5 (NIV) "It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." Chapters 0:00 Private relationship, public heartbreak 0:21 1. Are they mindful of you? 1:36 2. Fiance or financier? 2:24 3. Love forgives: the two boxes 4:38 4. Love commits: "What are we doing?" 5:39 5. Communication and respect 6:24 6. Love shows you off 7:38 Hunters, predators and farmers Pastor Bolaji Idowu · Harvesters International Christian Centre @HarvestersTV @BolajiId From the message "Dealing With The Root Cause Of Delay", 11 October 2026. Portion Media catches the moments everyone will be talking about, first. Subscribe for a daily portion of the Word. #ChristianDating #Relationships #BolajiIdowu #Harvesters #SignsHeLovesYou