Genuinely concerned if my loved ones are figuring out what makes them happy.

Title says it all.... i am concerned and feel for it like its a health concern bc it is. At least it can turn into one. ~ Side note Omfg i think i said the word "like" about 50x AHHH i can barely watch my own video bc of that I guess i found my first thing to improve on and it wasnt even video related but its my literal way of talking ahahaha Brings me back to when i was 17 and said before i go to college on the east coast, i gotta get rid of my californian tendencies of saying "like" as a filler ALLL the time HAHA and that im gonna learn how to speak more eloquently without fillers like that But it appears i didnt finish learning LOL also much worse rn bc im tired. going to try to make an active effort going forward not to say "like" 😬 as much **update i counted and i said "like" as a filler 74 TIMES OMGGGGGGGGG and i def missed a few too AHHH thats it. Im never saying the word "like" as a filler again 😤