These 5 things wives do slowly kill their husband's desire to lead.

These 5 things wives do slowly kill their husbands' desire to lead. And before anyone comes for me, I have done every single one of these myself. LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES! Dr. John Gottman spent 40 years studying thousands of couples and found he could predict divorce with 94% accuracy just by watching them interact for a few minutes. The number one predictor? Not infidelity. Not money problems. Not communication issues. Contempt. Eye rolling. Sarcasm. Dismissiveness. When contempt became a regular pattern in a marriage, couples divorced on average six years later. Six years of slow erosion. And it often starts with one eye roll. But here is the thing. Most wives are not doing this because they stopped loving their husbands. They're doing it because they're exhausted, disappointed, and scared to trust again. So this is not a call out. It is a call up. Proverbs 14:1 says a wise woman builds her house. A foolish one tears it down with her own hands. You have more power in this marriage than you realize. Use it to build him. Send this to your husband today and just say, “I'm working on this. I see you. I want to do better. And I’M PROUD OF YOU.” Which one hit you hardest? Drop the number below. I read every comment. Share this with your husband and tell him how proud you are of him!