You Don’t Have to Fight Yourself to Change.

What if discipline isn’t about forcing yourself to become someone new, but about caring enough for your future self to honor the commitments you make today? Our views of discipline can look like, “I have to do this because I’m not good enough yet.” Devotion says: “I’m doing this because the person I’m becoming deserves my commitment.” One is rooted in shame; the other is rooted in intention.