AITA for canceling our wedding vendors after my fiancée excluded my daughter?

My fiancée texted me, “The wedding is still happening, but your daughter won’t be standing with us. Mom says it makes the ceremony look like a second marriage.” I replied, “Understood.” Then I canceled every vendor contract tied to my card. She found out at her bridal shower when the planner asked where to send my refund. ---------------🦖D - Stories🦖--------------- #reddit #stories #redditstories