How to Let Go of Expectations That Were Never Yours featuring Elle Jaye

Join the Surfing Your Edge Salon at any paid level to participate in the 100 Days Experiment: https://kristine.substack.com/subscribe In this episode of Surfing Your Edge, Kristine Goad speaks with holistic alignment strategist Elle Jaye, host of Evolving With Elle: When Capable Women Carry Too Much, about questioning the “shoulds,” “musts,” and inherited expectations that can quietly shape our lives. Drawing from her own experiences with grief, divorce, parenting, career changes, and personal reinvention, Elle Jaye shares how curiosity, emotional expression, and conscious choice helped her reconnect with herself. Together, Kristine & Elle explore how to harmonize the many roles we play, make decisions from a vision of who we want to become, and gently stretch beyond what feels familiar by asking a powerful question: What else is possible? Highlights: Elle Jaye talks about how women can take on roles—daughter, mother, partner, employee, business owner—and unconsciously absorb expectations about how they are “supposed” to behave. ● Questioning the expectations attached to our roles ● Life disruptions can reveal where we are out of alignment ● Your vision for the future influences the choices you make today ● Growth requires stretching beyond your comfort zone ● Curiosity and emotional expression can create space for change About The Guest: Elle Jaye is a professional woman, speaker, facilitator, entrepreneur, & host of Evolving with Elle: When Capable Women Carry Too Much. Drawing from lived transformation, professional leadership, entrepreneurship, & continued study, she partners with capable, heart-centered women who appear successful yet feel overwhelmed, second-guess themselves, or are tired of living by expectations they did not choose. A Holistic Alignment Strategist, Elle uses honest reflection, elevating conversations, & her mirror, map, and method approach to support women in reclaiming their inner authority, honoring their capacity, & creating lives rooted in their values. She believes evolution is personal, but it does not have to be solitary. Connect with Elle Jaye: Website: https://mailchi.mp/3ae59b526c7c/ellejaye Instagram:   / ellejayesllc   Facebook:   / ellejayesllc   Youtube:    / @thriveafter   Elle’s gift for you: 1. What’s Yours to Carry? Link: https://mailchi.mp/cffb1fb8f769/podca... A practical reflective tool to support high-capacity, heart-centered working-women with teens. Identify what you are carrying, what belongs to your role, what expectations you may have added, and where a different decision could protect your capacity as you become the person you are meant to be. 2. Weekly Elevating Conversations Elle invites you to join her weekly Elevating Conversations While Multitasking call on zoom Claim Your Gift: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/regis... Check out Elle’s Podcast: Evolving with Elle When Capable Women Carry Too Much About the Host: Kristine Goad is endlessly curious about the moment when “I could never” becomes “What if I tried?” As the Surfing Your Edge Coach, she helps people transform their relationship with fear, trust themselves more deeply, & create lives that feel bigger, bolder, & more fully their own. Her approach blends coaching, adventure, experimentation, & wonder—shaped by experiences that include participating in the largest cross-country bicycle event in U.S. history, writing a memoir, building a business, & taking surf lessons to face her fear of open water in her late 40s. She is less interested in fearless living than in what becomes possible when we get curious about the things that scare us. Connect with Kristine: Substack: https://kristine.substack.com Website: https://kristinegoad.com Facebook:   / kristinegoad   YouTube:    / @kristinegoad   LinkedIn:   / kristinegoad   Instagram:   / kristine.goad   Kristine’s gift for you: Join me for a Possibility Party! ~ Reimagining what’s possible~ The What’s Next? Conversation A thoughtful and honest conversation about your life and how you want to show up in the world. You don’t have to figure out your whole life in one hour — we can just figure out the next two steps. Claim your gift: https://calendar.app.google/DsMvD6Atv... The Surfing Your Edge Podcast is proud to be on the Inspired Speaker Network, in partnership with AmplifYou (https://amplifyou.com/). ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Don’t forget to follow, rate & review. It helps us reach more people who want to use their voice to create positive change in the world, like you. ⭐Check out More Shows from the Network and connect with our podcasting community at https://inspiredspeakernetwork.com/ ⭐Visit our GIFT VAULT - updated weekly for more gifts from other guests on this podcast and other podcasts in our network. https://network.inspiredspeakernetwor...