Your Clue in the Mirror: Why Your Team Reflects You | The God Vibe Podcast Ep 14

The people who frustrate you most are not the problem. They are the clue. In this episode I walk you through the reflective perspective principle — the idea I built over years of working with executives, which says that every person and every event in your life is reflecting something running inside you. It is not a gentle teaching. It only works if you are willing to take full responsibility for what you are seeing, and I say so up front. Then two stories. The night my eight-year-old son could not stop coughing and the only thing I had left to give him was my own state. And the executive who was ready to fire his receptionist, until I asked him what he was thinking about every morning as he walked through the door. In this episode: — The reflective perspective principle, and why it is not for the meek and timid — Why your team is the most accurate mirror you have — Peace now: what to do when you cannot fix the situation in front of you — The one question to ask when someone infuriates you — Starting with the end in mind, and why describing your ideal changes what shows up — The morning practice that hands off the details you cannot control What would you love, if fear was not making the decision? Explore the courses at https://directconnectcoaching.co New episode of The God Vibe every Tuesday. Chapters: 0:00 Welcome 0:19 The reflective perspective principle 0:45 A caution: this one asks for 100% responsibility 1:34 Your team is a perfect mirror 2:24 Shift inside, and the outside changes 3:02 Peace now: the night my son could not stop coughing 5:03 Where are you attracting fear? 5:54 The executive and the receptionist 6:58 What would your ideal actually look like? 7:44 I want her to sound like Ariel 8:35 I found her 9:33 What part of me is reacting to that? 10:16 The infinite side of you 11:08 Start with the end in mind 12:21 When you look in the mirror, what do you see? 13:22 Thank you God for taking care of the details 14:04 An ongoing practice 15:03 Courses and closing 15:39 Outro