S2E1: Parents Mask Too: The Hidden Cost of Fighting for Your SEND Child

In the first episode of Season 2, Jannine is joined by Louisa Gray, author of We Are Not Seeing It: How and Why Mainstream Schools Break SEND Kids, for an honest conversation about what it costs parents to fight for their children. They explore the masking that happens behind closed doors: holding yourself together while your child falls apart, staying calm in intimidating meetings and carefully managing your emotions because showing distress may be used against you. This is also a conversation about systemic harm, advocacy, the impossible pressures facing families and professionals, and why parents should never have been expected to become experts in SEND law simply to secure the support their children need. Above all, it is a reminder that needing support does not reflect your capacity as a parent. The circumstances are difficult, the system can be hostile—and you are not alone. Luisa's website: https://longroadsendmum.com/about/ Jannine's website: https://adhdwise.uk/