Why You're Afraid of Love, Success, and Change: Trauma’s Quiet Rules

▶ Explore our most popular Complex Trauma Recovery Program: https://bit.ly/LIFTProgram Why do we sometimes ruin the very things we want—relationships, success, peace? In this video, Tim walks us through the hidden fears and patterns that come from complex trauma. He explains how the brain learns to expect chaos, why even healing can feel wrong, and how shame and fear of abandonment often drive self-sabotage. If you've ever felt like you're stuck in cycles you don’t understand, Tim’s insights might help it all start to make sense. Watch the full lecture:    • Fears | The Characteristics of Complex Tra...   ▶ Equip yourself with powerful tools to become a safe person for your children: https://bit.ly/ALIGNWithYourChild ▶ Do you have complex trauma? Take the quiz: https://bit.ly/CPTSD-Quizzes ▶ Unsure where to begin? Reach out to us: https://bit.ly/ReachOut-TimFletcher ▶ Check out articles, resources, courses, and programs on our website: https://bit.ly/TimFletcherCo ▶ Get tickets to our next Live or Virtual event! https://bit.ly/TimFletcherEvents 🎧Watch or listen to the Time With Tim Podcast:    / @timewithtimpodcast   Your membership supports our mission to change the landscape of complex trauma recovery. ▶ Join our YouTube channel! https://bit.ly/JoinTimFletcher Understand the development of complex trauma in your life, discover how addictions are formed and find healthy ways to cope, or learn how to parent yourself and your child with complex trauma. ▶ Explore ALIGN Self-Study Courses here: https://bit.ly/ALIGNCourses Dig deep into the roots of your complex trauma and gain tools to heal & recover long-term. ▶ Explore the LIFT Online Learning Programs here: https://bit.ly/LIFTProgram #fearofsuccess #selfsabotage #complextrauma #mentalhealthrecovery #healingjourney #cptsd #childhoodtrauma --- DISCLAIMER: Tim Fletcher is not a doctor or licensed therapist; he is a counsellor in Canada and has worked with people with Complex Trauma and Addiction for decades. Tim’s videos are for informational purposes only to provide understanding, learning, and awareness about complex trauma. No information published here can replace professional evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis, please contact your local crisis hotline at 988.ca, 988lifeline.org, dial 988, or call your local emergency services.