"Give Them Grace” Might Mean the Opposite of What You Think | BTM Chats – September 10, 2026

“Give them grace” sounds loving. But sometimes what we really mean is: don’t say anything. Let it go. Avoid the uncomfortable conversation. In this BTM Chat, Addison and Huy work through the difference between mercy and grace, why mercy has to come first, and why giving someone true grace may upset more than smooth things over. The question isn’t whether correction feels comfortable. It’s whether you can speak truth without condemnation, from the same identity and love God has shown you. Mercy forgives. Grace says the hard, but loving thing. If conversations like this help bring clarity to how you actually live the gospel, subscribe and keep walking with us.