Why Your Avoidant Ex LIED To You (RAW)

After dating an avoidant, it's easy to believe that the experience you shared may have been fake. A dynamic heavily influenced by their avoidant tendencies, at least until the end. Paradoxical behaviours that left you quietly carrying uncertainty every day. The confusion of whether the love you shared was real or not. Even though, one time, you were certain. In those moments of heartbreak, we sometimes begin to realise that the lies were not only told to themselves, but to us aswell. Not from a hurtful place but as a defence mechanism. Just as much as you try to rationalise the situation, the more confusion builds. In this video, I explore WHY your avoidant ex may seem like they lied to you both. #avoidantattachment #heartbreak