When Living in God's Yes Is Harder Than You Expected

Welcome to the Called to Love Podcast! For this episode, I am joined by Melissa Miller. Melissa is the mom to five kids, biological and adopted, and she is an advocate for vulnerable children in foster care. Besides being a busy mom, Melissa is also a Reboot Retreat facilitator in her home state Tennessee, the author of “But I Prayed for This” and a contributor to sites such as Mother.ly, Her View from Home, and the YouVersion Bible app. In our conversation today, we unpack all the emotional complexities that come with this calling. This is something we prayed for and yet there is so much pain and grief when the child finally enters our home, and it is hard to wrestle with. It can be hard to share those feelings with others, thinking they will say, “But you prayed for this. This is what you wanted.” The guilt and shame that can come with this feeling, thinking we should be grateful and happy God answered the prayer, but it feels nothing like we imagined. We get into all of this as Melissa shares her story and elaborates more on how we can walk this out in our families. Let’s dive in! Key topics in this episode: Constant changes can cause fatigue and impact families The importance of validation and compassion Balancing grief and gratitude in difficult seasons Building rhythms and routines for stability The role of faith and God's sovereignty in healing Learn more about “But I Prayed for This: What to Do When Living in God's Yes Is Harder Than You Expected” by going to Amazon You can email me your questions about adoption and foster care at somercolbert@gmail.com. I would love to connect with you on Instagram! @somercolbert