Before You Date an Enneagram Type 3, Watch This! ⚠️

So… you’re about to date an Enneagram Type 3? Before you dive in, here are the 10 things you must know about the Achiever — the charm, the chaos, the ambition, the Gremlin, and the heart underneath it all. Type 3s are driven, efficient, goal‑oriented humans who want to be admired and successful. But they’re also tender, vulnerable, and deeply shaped by the belief that their worth comes from what they accomplish. As a Type 3 myself, this video comes straight from my heart (and my lived experience). FIND YOUR ENNEAGRAM TYPE: My Enneagram Journal: https://amzn.to/4pPFAsh Free Enneagram Test: https://abbeyhowe.com/free-enneagram-... Free Typing Guide: https://abbeyhowe.com/freebie-or-enne... Another *Test I Like: http://truity.com/?a=2788847 What Do the Numbers Mean?:    • How To Find Your Enneagram Type and Wing   FURTHER RESOURCES:    • Annoying Things Enneagram 3s Do in Love      • Enneagram Type 3 Explained: The Achiever’s...   How to Better Love an Enneagram 3: https://abbeyhowe.com/blogs/enneagram... When a Type 3 Workaholic has a Baby: https://talkenneagram.substack.com/p/... ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:    / @abbeyhowe   Hi! I’m Abbey Howe, certified Enneagram Coach and author of “My Enneagram” an approachable, playful journal designed to help you embark on an empowering journey of self-discovery. On this channel, I playfully hold up a mirror to reveal your personality and help you feel less alone. A happy life relies on your ability to understand yourself and others better. Through typology and self-compassion, my goal is to help you discover YOU. #enneagramwithAbbey #enneagram3 BOOKS I RECOMMEND: My Enneagram workbook* https://amzn.to/3UIGV7v The Honest Enneagram* https://amzn.to/3zsVRgp The Road Back To You* https://amzn.to/3QpEW4D The Enneagram for Black Liberation* https://amzn.to/3NErLea The 9 Types of Leadership* https://amzn.to/3aGvjxU The Enneagram at Work* https://amzn.to/3MKOMek TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 – Before you date a Type 3… watch this 00:43 – #10: Plans, plans, plans 01:04 – #9: A clean, efficient home = romance 01:30 – #8: Respect their work flow 02:09 – #7: The chaos gremlin within 03:30 – #6: Why they choose you 04:21 – #5: Efficiency is their love language 04:54 – #4: Competitiveness (prepare yourself) 05:22 – #3: Learn the Enneagram 05:57 – #2: Words of affirmation 06:25 – #1: Why Type 3s are amazing partners 07:07 – Playlist for all types SAY HELLO: Everything in one place: https://abbeyhowe.com/ Join the Email List: https://abbeyhowe.com/freebie-or-the-... Substack: https://talkenneagram.substack.com/ LinkedIn:   / abbeyhowe   Instagram:   / enneagramwithabbey   Facebook:   / enneagramwithabbey   Threads: https://www.threads.com/@enneagramwit... TikTok:   / abbey_howe   Pinterest:   / enneagram_with_abbey   FTC DISCLAIMER: This video is not sponsored! Links in this description marked with a * are affiliate links which means I may receive a small commission if you purchase something. There is no additional charge to you. Thank you for supporting my channel so I can continue to provide you with free content each week! MUSIC: Epidemic Sound - Dancing with the Devil Music by Blue Sirens - Milk Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=AAEDF111 Music by Naomi - Limbo - https://thmatc.co/?l=44EFDBAF Music by Public Library Commute - Mile High - https://thmatc.co/?l=BB578B8C