The Real Reason You Keep Losing What You Love

Why do you get so close to something you really want...the money, the relationship, the opportunity...and then somehow blow it up? It's not your fault, and it's not failure. It's your nervous system. In this video I share the catch nobody talks about: you'll only ever vibrate at the frequency your body feels safe to hold. Your nervous system is the bridge between your soul and the life you want and if your body doesn't feel safe, nothing crosses. That's why people win the money and lose it, or get the relationship and self-sabotage it. You don't rise to the level of what you want. You fall to the level of what your body can hold. The work isn't another vision board. It's becoming the person whose body feels safe holding the life you say you want and teaching your nervous system, in small doses, that the bigger life is safe. Let one good thing land. Receive the compliment. Tiny reps of safety, until your body raises the ceiling. This is Day 5 of 10 — the most important unlock in the whole series. Tomorrow we talk about why your outer world is just a mirror of your inner one. Where do you keep getting close to something good and then pulling back? Drop it in the comments. Subscribe to follow the countdown to my 60th birthday on June 8th. CONNECT & GO DEEPER Want to go deeper? I write a Soul Note on Substack to accompany each episode in this series, the parts that didn't fit in the video. Subscribe here: https://substack.com/@lorisoulcircle Join the Soul Circle Collective - our free community for people doing this real inner work together: https://www.skool.com/soul-circle-col... ─────────────────────────────── 📚 BOOKS I RECOMMEND ───────────────────────────────── (Affiliate links — if you purchase through these, it supports the channel at no extra cost to you. Thank you!) The Body Keeps the Score – Bessel van der Kolk 👉 https://amzn.to/4sqldDJ Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life – Wayne Dyer 👉 https://amzn.to/47sCbt9 Atomic Habits – James Clear 👉 https://amzn.to/4laYnOh Theo Of Golden: A Novel – Allen Levi 👉 https://amzn.to/40Kchxf Twice – Mitch Albom 👉 https://amzn.to/4d2eNX2 Outlive – Peter Attia 👉 https://amzn.to/488J03w 🎧 Prefer listening? Try Audible here: 👉 https://amzn.to/4rWwpby ─────────────────────────────── 📅 JOIN ME LIVE EVERY WEEK ─────────────────────────────── 🗓️ Sunday – 7:00 PM ET 🗓️ Thursday – 10:00 AM ET ─────────────────────────────── If this video landed for you, share it with someone who needed it today.