Is It Imposter Syndrome? (The Mask Was the Imposter) | Visible with Sonyé Randolph, Ep. 6
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Is It Imposter Syndrome? (The Mask Was the Imposter) | Visible with Sonyé Randolph, Ep. 6
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Sonyé | Vault to Visible™
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You've done the degrees and the mindset work, and you still feel like someone's about to find you out. In this episode I show you what's actually underneath imposter syndrome, using one page from my own journal.
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In Episode 1, I told you, "You're not an imposter, you're braced." And I said it braced. Slow voice, careful, ultra professional, and not myself.
Then, on Day 5 of my own Vault to Visible™ practice, I wrote down every fear I had about being seen and rated each one, likely or unlikely. Two didn't hold up. One was real, and I decided it wouldn't steer. The fourth one changed everything: I wasn't afraid I'd fail. I was afraid it would work.
That's what the mask was hiding. Not failure. The other side of success.
In this episode:
• The three things imposter syndrome isn't
• Why polish makes you feel more like a fraud, not less
• The three locks the mask covers: Visibility, Follow-Through, and Wealth
• What I did the very next day, without asking anybody's permission
• A short breathing practice and journal prompt to take your own mask off, body first
CHAPTERS
0:00 I Said That Braced
0:39 Show Intro
1:14 The 2am Question
2:36 What I Was Thinking (The Spiral)
5:31 What the Mask Was Hiding in My Body
6:35 What Has the Mask Been Costing You?
7:21 Imposter Syndrome Isn't What Your Body Forecasted
9:26 The Most Likely Fear Isn't the One Steering
10:47 Polish Won't Fix It
14:18 3 Things the Mask Covers
18:36 Your One Thing This Week (Practice)
23:27 Altitude 1:1 Coaching
YOUR ONE THING THIS WEEK
Breathe in for 4, out for about 8, and notice where your shoulders go. If you can't do a long exhale of 8 counts, shorten it. Then write what you actually predict will happen if people see the real you, and ask of each one, "Has this actually happened?"
Tell me in the comments who needs the thing you've been holding back. Not what it is. Who it's for.
ABOUT SONYÉ
Attorney, cerebral aneurysm survivor, MS warrior, and nervous system coach. I created Vault to Visible™, a 20-minute daily practice for accomplished women who go invisible in the rooms that count: three locks, 21 keys, 20 minutes a day.
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Vault to Visible™ is coaching and practice, not therapy, medical, or legal advice. If you have a breathing or medical condition, modify the practice or check with your doctor first.
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