Why I Avoid Queer Community Spaces

This video discusses my reasons for stepping back from queer community spaces after being part of them for many years, including toxic social dynamics, gender ideology, and lack of inclusivity. I discuss my experiences in queer communities as a LGB woman who openly disagrees with gender ideology, and how I have made meaningful connections. Links: She Holds The Line Podcast:    • Author Discussion: Black Women Speak on Ge...   She Holds The Line Book: https://n3vlynnn.com/she-holds-the-line/ My Substack: https://blog.n3vlynnn.com/p/offering-... Related Reading: Pronoun circles are humiliating: https://blog.n3vlynnn.com/pronoun-cir... Lesbian and feminist spaces promote unwellness: https://blog.n3vlynnn.com/p/lesbian-a... Janelle Monae Nonbinary and “Self Love Journey”: https://blog.n3vlynnn.com/p/janelle-m... Can we be friends with Trans Apologists: https://blog.n3vlynnn.com/p/why-we-ca... How the Trans Movement is Erasing Black Women From History: https://blog.n3vlynnn.com/p/how-the-t... Timestamps: 0:00-Intro 1:13-The Substack note that inspired this video 2:28-The term “Queer" has been co-opted and misused 4:17-How the modern trans movement has turned queer into an ideology 5:05-Oppressed groups don't turn slurs into entire political ideologies 5:43-How Gender ideology has taken over LGB social spaces 7:03-Pronoun Circles as a mandatory social ritual 9:33-Lesbian spaces are male-centered 11:20-Policing and lack of critical thought in LGBT spaces 13:13-Cancel culture and intolerance 14:15-Why I Practice discernment in personal relationships 16:00-Why there are no public LGBT spaces that embrace diversity of thought 18:00-Gender ideology is pervasive and totalizing 21:00-Closing thoughts & Sharing What I offer on Substack #genderideology