Deepening Spiritual Connection in Marriage (Part 1) with Bryan and Rachel Hehr

What does it truly mean to companion your spouse into a deeper, more intimate life with Christ? In this rich and expansive episode of Transforming Us, host Jessica Vangsnes sits down with Bryan and Rachel Hare—founders of Curate Ministries, trained spiritual directors, and doctoral researchers at Denver Seminary. Together, they invite us to step away from rigid expectations and explore how spiritual practices—specifically the ancient, reflective traditions of Ignatian spirituality and the Prayer of Examen—can fundamentally reshape how couples relate to God and to each other. Moving well beyond surface-level Bible studies or abstract theological discussions, Bryan and Rachel offer a compassionate, grounded approach to soul companionship in everyday life. They unpack how honoring each spouse’s unique personality patterns (including Enneagram dynamics) and attachment styles creates a safe, generous space for authentic spiritual intimacy to flourish. Whether you are navigating mismatched spiritual rhythms, wrestling with seasonal burnout, or simply longing for a deeper heart connection with your partner, this conversation provides a refreshing roadmap for holding space, practicing "holy curiosity," and witnessing the unique ways God is moving in your spouse’s interior world. Learn more about Bryan and Rachel’s work at https://www.curateministries.org/ and read Rachel’s writing on her Substack, Rooted Together. Discover more about Transforming Us coaching and resources at our website transformingus.org. Lots of FREE guides and assessments for your journey. Do you need help understanding your patterns? Book your FREE 30 min discovery call today! Go to Connect. Youtube: @transformingus Instagram: @transformingus Facebook: @transformingus