Yeh 7 Baatein Kaash Waqt Par Seekh Leta — 90 Saal Ke Buzurg Ka Pachtawa

I am 90 years old. This morning my oldest friend Anwar came to say goodbye. Sixty years of friendship. We studied together, worked together, raised our children together. He drank his tea. He smiled at me. And he said — Kabeer, I am leaving tomorrow. Going to my younger son in another city. There is no promise of coming back. Perhaps we will not meet again. Main uske chehre ki jhuriyan dekhta raha. Uske safed baal. Uski kaanpti awaz. Aur us ek lamhe mein mujh par woh baat khuli jo sattar saal ki mehnat ne nahi kholi thi. Beta, zindagi ka asli chehra 90 saal ki umar mein saamne aata hai — 50 ya 60 mein nahi. Aur 90 saal mein jo sach saamne aata hai, woh 70 saal ki mehnat ulta deta hai. In this video I share the 7 lessons I wish I had learned in my 50s and 60s. Seven truths that would have changed everything. Pehla sabaq — jism badalta hai. Jo taaqat aaj hai, woh kal nahi hogi. Abhi apni sehat banao — kyunki budhape mein wahi jism sabse bada bojh ban jaata hai. Doosra sabaq — dost marte jaate hain. Naye dost banao, purane rishton ko waqt do. Ek din tum akele reh jaoge, aur us waqt ek phone call bhi bahut badi cheez lagegi. Teesra sabaq — retirement tumhe woh chehra dikhati hai jo tum tab hote ho jab kisi ko tumhari zaroorat nahi hoti. Pehle se tayari karo — koi maqsad, koi mashghala. Chautha sabaq — apni biwi ke saath sehat mand saal gin-tii ke hain. Woh khidki jis mein tum dono saath chal sakte ho, ghoom sakte ho — woh band ho rahi hai. Use abhi istemaal karo. Paanchwa sabaq — abhi maaf kar do. Jise maaf karna hai, aaj karo. Kal woh insaan nahi hoga, ya tum nahi hoge. Maafi ka mauka hamesha nahi rehta. Chhata sabaq — darr lagega. Har naye kaam mein, har badi baat mein. Phir bhi karo. Kyunki jo kaam darr ke maare nahi kiye, unka pachtawa sabse zyada hota hai. Saatwa sabaq — zindagi ke aakhri 30 saal pehle 60 se zyada tezi se guzarte hain. Palak jhapakte sab kuch chala jaata hai. Main ne palak jhapki, aur Shameem chali gayi. Yeh 7 baatein main ne bahut der se seekhin. Tum — tum abhi shayad 50 ke ho, shayad 60 ke. Mere paas shayad zyada waqt na ho. Magar tumhare paas hai. Aaj seekho. Abhi. Kyunki agar aaj nahi seekha, toh ek din tum bhi mere jaise hoge — 90 saal ke, tanha, ek Anwar jaise dost ki rukhsati sunte hue. Yeh 7 Baatein Kaash Waqt Par Seekh Leta — 90 Saal Ke Buzurg Ka Pachtawa