Out of the Reeds Episode 20: Build Your Dream Life

Motherhood, identity, and risk-taking collide in this honest conversation about building a life that actually fits. Cassidy Nicholas shares how becoming a mom changed everything—her priorities, her business, and the way she sees herself—and why she’s now creating The Vault, a homeschool hybrid and family wellness club designed for the kind of community she couldn’t find. Natasha and Cassidy get real about the hidden identity shift that comes with motherhood, the pressure to stay “safe,” and why some of the most meaningful growth happens when you choose discomfort on purpose. If you’ve ever felt torn between caring for your family and staying connected to yourself, this episode will feel like a permission slip. You’ll hear Cassidy break down: How motherhood reshaped her trajectory after a background in competitive obstacle course racing and fitness Why she describes herself as “scrunchy” and what that looks like in real life The difference between homeschooling, hybrid schooling, and the community-first model she’s building in Naples How she and her husband are turning a shared vision into a real business with education, co-working, fitness, cold plunge, sauna, and family events Why she believes kids should see your “glory days” in real time, not just hear stories about them later Natasha and Cassidy also explore the tension many parents feel between structure and freedom. Cassidy shares what it takes to build something high-risk, values-driven, and deeply personal while raising four kids. Cassidy Nicholas is a mom, former competitive obstacle course racer, and co-creator of The Vault Naples, a forthcoming homeschool hybrid and family wellness club. Her perspective bridges fitness, parenting, and entrepreneurship in a way that feels both grounded and bold. This one is for moms, parents, and anyone craving a bigger, braver version of family life. If you’re thinking about homeschooling, building a business with your partner, or simply redefining what your prime looks like, don’t skip this episode.