Self-hoovering, Narcissism: Trauma or Role Play?

No contact except in hoovering? Narcissists in stable long-term relationships do not discard? Self-hoovering as trauma bonding response, island of stability: habituated automatic hoovering. But self-hoovering can be unlearned, narcissism cannot. NPD is both a post-traumatic condition and a role play. Grandiosity (cognitive distortion), shared fantasy (fantasy defense), lack of empathy, and some traits are fixtures. But their expression is acquired, a role play. Behavior modification is common in therapy, army, prison, hospital (total institutions). WATCH Narcissist's Victim: NO CONTACT Rules    • Narcissist's Victim: NO CONTACT Rules   WATCH How to Tell Apart Narcissist, Psychopath, Borderline (Hint: Stability Island)    • How to Tell Apart Narcissist, Psychopath, ...   Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...