Raising Spiritually Strong Kids

Christian parents are carrying a huge question: how do you raise spiritually strong kids in a world that keeps pushing against faith? Dr. Charles Fay says the answer is simpler, deeper, and more freeing than most of us think - and it starts with letting go of control. In this conversation, Dayle Annand talks with Dr. Charles Fay, author of Raising Spiritually Strong Kids from Tyndale Publishing, about what really shapes a child’s faith, character, and resilience. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by curriculum pressure, power struggles, or the fear that you’re not doing enough, this episode will feel like a reset. Links: To find Dr. Fay's website: https://www.loveandlogic.com/ To purchase Dr. Fay's book, Raising Spiritually Strong Kids: https://www.tyndale.com/p/raising-spi... To contact Homeschool Minnesota--MÂCHÉ: https://homeschoolminnesota.org/ Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Homeschool Minnesota and the question of raising spiritually strong kids (01:05) Dr. Charles Fay’s background and why character came first in his childhood (03:16) Why the gospel, not curriculum anxiety, must ground parenting (04:03) Character traits that matter more than academics alone (05:01) What employers value most: humility, listening, and putting others first (06:08) Finding and building on each child’s natural strengths (06:38) Three parenting priorities: stop fighting, focus on character, build strengths (10:03) Why the book is designed to be practical and step-by-step (12:32) The lie that parents can control everything (13:27) Pride, discouragement, and the strong-willed child (16:35) Jesus as the protector of children’s faith, not just parents’ effort (18:35) Fear and pride as warning signs that it’s time to pray (21:24) Why parents should hope kids experience mistakes while they are young (23:24) Consequences work best when paired with empathy, not anger (26:55) “This is so sad” and the power of leading with empathy (28:49) Building trust through noticing children and meeting needs (30:40) Why limits make children feel safe (31:55) Limits as promises, especially around calm voices and technology (34:22) Choosing character and spiritual growth over adult comfort (38:27) Strong and loving boundaries working together (40:54) The gospel as the model for both truth and grace (41:27) Parenting spiritually strong kids starts with surrender to Jesus (42:52) Final encouragement to parents to keep going