02 Hurt, but Not Offended | Andrew Selley | Conference in North America 2026

Hurt is inevitable when people follow Jesus together, but being offended is a choice. Jesus warns in Luke 17 that offenses will come, yet He also shows us how to remain free when rejection, betrayal, and injustice wound us. In this session, Andrew Selley explains how unprocessed pain becomes bitterness, division, and a foothold for the enemy, while the Holy Spirit produces love, peace, patience, and grace. We must learn to recognise when offense has taken root, resist the urge to keep a record of wrongs, overlook mistakes, and always forgive. Following Christ means entrusting justice to God and refusing to let another person’s actions define your heart or destroy your community. #Offense #Forgiveness #ChristianForgiveness #ChurchHurt #Healing #Bitterness #Grace #Luke17 #ChristianLiving #SpiritualGrowth #HealthyChurch #Relationships #FollowingJesus #Four12Global #EquipRestoreAdvance #Apostolic About the Speaker: Andrew Selley is the apostolic leader of Four12 (F12) and the lead elder of multisite, Joshua Generation Church. He has been in full-time ministry since 1996. After serving on the NCMI apostolic team for five years, he founded Four12 in 2011. Andrew is based in California, USA, with his wife, Emma, and their daughter, Enyah. --------------------------- 👉🏽 About Four12: Four12 is a global partnership of churches longing to live out authentic New Testament Christianity and working together to Equip, Restore and Advance the church that Jesus Himself is building. -------------------------- 👉🏽 Stay Connected: Website: http://www.four12global.com Facebook:   / four12global   Instagram:   / four12global   YouTube Channel:    / four12global   👉🏽 Get the App: Amazon: https://bit.ly/F12AppAmazon Android: https://bit.ly/F12AppGooglePlay Apple: https://bit.ly/F12AppApple​