Christian Ladies, Church Is the WORST Place to Find a Husband, Here’s Why!!

Before you come for me 😂 this is NOT a message against Christian men, pastors, or the church. The point is this: church can be like a hospital.People come there because they need healing. They may be battling emotional wounds, anger, insecurity, financial struggles, addiction, trauma, or other things you may never see on Sunday. So please don’t marry a man simply because he worships beautifully, serves in church, knows Scripture, or looks godly in public. You don’t know someone’s character just because you know their church persona. As a godly woman, your first assignment isn't necessarily to find a pastor or a man sitting beside you in church. Find your purpose. Pray. Ask God to direct your steps and remain open to where He may lead you. Your Boaz might be at work. At the gym. On vacation. On a tour. At a coffee shop. Somewhere you never expected. Think about Ruth and Boaz,Ruth wasn't sitting around trying to find “a husband.” She was faithfully walking in purpose, and God directed her story. And this is why stories like the allegations explored in Netflix's Death of the Pastor's Wife should make Christian women think deeply about discernment: you can think you've met the love of your life, while the person you see publicly may be very different from what happens behind closed doors. The documentary examines allegations surrounding Mica Miller's marriage; these are allegations, not a finding that her husband caused her death. Don't marry the Sunday version of someone. Get to know the whole person. Pray. Observe. Take your time. Ask questions. Watch character not just charisma. #ChristianDating #ChristianWomen #DatingRedFlags #ChristianRelationships #ChristianMarriage #GodlyMan #ChristianDatingAdvice #RelationshipRedFlags #ChristianSingles #Discernment #ChristianTestimony #TheUnscriptedTwenties #datingstories #marriagepreparation #godlyhusband