8 Years in Prison… Is Cheating Understandable?! | Great Apes Cafe Ep. 137

The question that takes over the episode: If your husband or wife went to prison for 7–8 years… are you staying faithful the whole time? That leads into the Remy Ma and Papoose situation, cheating, divorce, loyalty, knowing when to let somebody go, and whether holding somebody down for years changes what you should expect from them when they come home. We also get into maintaining relationships, splitting responsibilities when one person is drained, taking time before marriage, temptation, knowing when to remove yourself from a situation, and why you shouldn’t take relationship advice from somebody who doesn’t follow their own advice. Earlier in the episode, the crew also discusses immigration enforcement, family separation, and concerns about how people are being treated. Those portions reflect the hosts’ opinions and discussion around current events. Drop your answer in the comments: If your spouse got 8 years, are you waiting? And if you held somebody down for years and they cheated afterward… could you forgive them? Special Guest: Q Hosted by Timothy Ra, Kool Kev & Dre Aries. Like, comment, subscribe, share, and pull up a seat at the Great Apes Cafe. 🦍🎙️ Chapters 0:00 Cold Open – Would You Stay Faithful for 8 Years? 1:18 Welcome to Great Apes Cafe + Introducing Q 2:04 Q Talks About the Bounce Back 2:54 Hyperhidrosis & Getting the Episode Started 3:56 ICE, Immigration & Family Separation 8:16 What’s Really Going On? 11:59 Who Should Actually Be Deported? 13:48 Switching Gears 14:06 Remy Ma & Papoose 15:11 When a Relationship Turns Toxic 16:11 Why Won’t People Sign the Divorce Papers? 19:26 Does Cheating Ever Justify Leaving? 21:41 Could You Wait While Your Partner Is Locked Up? 22:21 7–8 Years in Prison… Are You Staying Faithful? 23:14 Did Papoose Really Hold Her Down? 27:01 Would You Give Your Partner Permission? 28:15 Remy vs. Claressa Talk 30:16 Relationships Need Maintenance 31:37 Sometimes Your Partner Has to Carry More 32:37 Marriage Has to Be Give-and-Take 34:33 Your Spouse Says a Lot About You 36:07 How Long Should You Date Before Marriage? 38:03 Should Married People Have a Backup Plan? 39:08 Loyalty Gets Tested 40:04 Knowing When to Leave Temptation Alone 41:24 Stop Taking Advice From Hypocrites 42:09 Who Would You Want Beside You at the End? 43:09 Outro