Mother Wound: Why You Say Yes When Your Body Says No

Are you the adult child of dysfunction? Get started on your emotional healing journey with this FREE quiz: https://www.lisaaromano.com/quiz?utm_... If you have spent your life putting everyone else first and you cannot work out why, this may explain it. This video explains the mother wound, the feeling of never having been chosen, and why that one early experience teaches you to stop choosing yourself. You will learn why saying no can feel dangerous, how a child's nervous system gets stuck in survival when nobody was there to soothe it, and why you keep attracting people who never put you first. Lisa also shares the exact tool she created for a private client, the mental and emotional lubricant, a simple reframe that releases resistance and gets you out of the loop. This is for adult children of alcoholics, narcissistic parents and emotionally immature homes who are tired of abandoning themselves to keep everyone else comfortable. In this video you will learn: Why the mother wound makes you feel you were never chosen, and what that does to your adult relationships Why you say yes when your body is saying no How the first twelve months of life shape whether your nervous system learns safety or survival Why choosing yourself registers as a threat instead of as self-respect The difference between living below the veil and above the veil Why you attract people who match your old programming, not your hopes ⭐ FREE LIVE WEBINAR SERIES From Wounded Self to Co-Creator: Quantum Intention for Adult Children How your past taught your brain to predict what comes next, and how you begin teaching it something different. If you can see your patterns clearly and still cannot move, this is what it is for. Sep 15, Sep 22, Sep 29, Oct 6 No cost. Reserve your seat 👉 https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/regis... ⭐ READY TO GO DEEPER? 🌿 The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program - Lisa's complete step-by-step system to break subconscious survival patterns, heal your nervous system, and reclaim your worth: 👉 https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp?u... ⭐ JOIN THE FREE COMMUNITY 💛 Breakthrough Warrior Facebook group →   / adultchildrenofalcoholics   💛 Daily healing posts on Instagram →   / lisaaromano   ⭐ SUPPORT THE CHANNEL 💛 Subscribe, Like, share, and comment below - every comment helps this message reach someone who needs it. Chapters: 00:00 The Mother Wound 00:44 Why You Self-Silence 02:00 Choosing Yourself Feels Dangerous 02:31 The Signs You Wake Up To 03:19 The First 12 Months 04:10 Below the Veil, Above the Veil 07:54 The Tool 09:01 It Did Happen, and It Can Happen 12:00 My Story 14:06 Where to Start KEY TOPICS: people pleasing, self abandonment, toxic mother, mother wound daughter, mother wound healing, mother wound, healing the mother wound, self worth, how to stop self abandonment, self abandonment healing, how to heal self abandonment, narcissistic mothers, self abandonment in relationships, self abandonment cycle, mother wounds, healing a mother wound, the mother wound, mother wound healing meditation, stop self abandonment #MotherWound #CodependencyRecovery #InnerChildHealing #SelfAbandonment #AdultChildren Disclaimer: The content presented in this video, including all thoughts, script concepts, frameworks, and commentary, is for educational, informational, and self-coaching purposes only. Lisa A. Romano is a Breakthrough Life Coach and Subconscious Reprogramming Expert, not a licensed therapist, psychologist, or medical healthcare provider. Not Therapy or Medical Advice: This video is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any mental health condition, nor is it a substitute for professional mental health care, psychotherapy, or medical advice. Seek Professional Support: If you are experiencing severe distress, complex trauma, or mental health struggles, please consult with a licensed mental health professional or medical practitioner in your area. Personal Responsibility: Participation in self-coaching concepts, programs, or community discussions is voluntary, and viewers assume full personal responsibility for their own emotional well-being and life choices.