SITTING WITH MJAY | EPISODE 84 - DOES WITCHCRAFT EXIST? DO PEOPLE FLY AT NIGHT? | Dr Nomakhosi

In this episode of Sitting With MJay, MJay sits down with Dr Nomakhosi, a Traditional Doctor, Prophet, Life Coach, Mentor, Wife, and Mother, for one of the most thought-provoking conversations we've ever had. Together, they unpack African spirituality, Christianity, ancestors, calling, healing, witchcraft, dreams, family, culture, and the responsibility that comes with guiding people's lives. Dr Nomakhosi begins by sharing her personal journey and explaining the different spiritual callings that exist. She breaks down the distinction between being a traditional healer, a prophet, a pastor, and other spiritual gifts, explaining that while the paths may differ, each calling comes with its own process, purpose, and responsibility. She also shares why she doesn't see her journey as leaving Christianity behind, but rather as adding another layer to her understanding of God and spirituality. One of the most fascinating parts of the conversation explores whether African spirituality and Christianity can coexist. Dr Nomakhosi explains why she believes many people see the two as incompatible, arguing that much of the conflict comes from misunderstanding both scripture and African traditions. She also discusses the importance of knowing your roots, understanding your ancestry, and why many people have become disconnected from their own cultural identity. MJay and Dr Nomakhosi also tackle one of the most controversial topics surrounding traditional healing,witchcraft. They discuss whether witches really fly at night, whether every setback should be blamed on witchcraft, and why people often give evil too much credit. Dr Nomakhosi offers a balanced perspective, explaining that while she believes witchcraft exists, not every tragedy, illness, failure, or death should automatically be attributed to spiritual attacks. The conversation then shifts to dreams, ancestors, and spiritual callings. Dr Nomakhosi explains why not every dream carries a spiritual meaning, how some dreams can simply be a reflection of everyday life, and why others may carry deeper significance. She also discusses how spiritual gifts manifest differently from person to person and why not everyone is called to become a traditional healer. One of the most eye-opening discussions focuses on the role and responsibility of traditional healers. MJay challenges whether irresponsible consultations can divide families, destroy relationships, and create unnecessary fear. Dr Nomakhosi responds by explaining why maturity, emotional intelligence, compassion, and proper training are just as important as spiritual knowledge. She argues that healers should also be counsellors, mentors, and people who know how to deliver difficult truths without causing unnecessary harm. The discussion also explores something many people overlook: sometimes the biggest obstacle in our lives isn't witchcraft, curses, or bad luck, it is ourselves. Dr Nomakhosi speaks about self-doubt, comparison, procrastination, poor financial decisions, unhealthy relationships, and personal accountability. She explains why some problems require counselling, discipline, and personal growth rather than spiritual intervention alone. Finally, MJay and Dr Nomakhosi discuss Ubuntu, family values, and why modern society has become increasingly disconnected from community and culture. They reflect on how losing our traditions, language, and sense of belonging may be contributing to many of the challenges people face today, while encouraging viewers to approach both faith and culture with wisdom, humility, and understanding. 🧠 Topics Discussed: ✨ Dr Nomakhosi's journey as a Traditional Doctor, Prophet, and Life Coach ✨ The difference between prophets, pastors, traditional healers, and other spiritual callings ✨ Can Christianity and African Spirituality coexist? ✨ Understanding ancestors and spiritual gifts ✨ Why not everyone has a spiritual calling ✨ The importance of knowing your roots and cultural identity ✨ Do witches really fly at night? ✨ Does witchcraft exist, and do we give it too much credit? ✨ Why not every dream has a spiritual meaning ✨ Understanding dreams and spiritual messages ✨ Can traditional healers unintentionally divide families? ✨ The responsibility of healers when delivering difficult messages ✨ Why emotional intelligence and counselling matter in healing ✨ When the biggest obstacle in life is ourselves ✨ Self-doubt, comparison, procrastination, and accountability ✨ Rebuilding Ubuntu, family values, and cultural identity 🎙️ Host: MJay 🎙️ Guest: Dr Nomakhosi – Traditional Doctor, Prophet & Life Coach 📢 Don't forget: Subscribe to the channel, leave a comment, and share your thoughts respectfully. 📧 Advertise with us: madishamj501@gmail.com 📞 WhatsApp / Call: 065 929 1133