Why Needing Love Keeps You From Receiving It

What if you don’t actually need a relationship to complete you? What if you could choose a relationship simply because it adds joy to your life—not because you need someone to validate you, save you, or make you enough? For years, so many of us have used fairy tales, Hollywood tropes, and other people’s relationship choices as our reference points. But when you operate from conclusions, projections, and neediness, you shut the door on receiving what is truly available. In this video, Simone Milasas shares one of the foundational tools that completely transformed her perspective on connection: the 5 Elements of Intimacy (Trust, Honor, Allowance, Gratitude, and Vulnerability). Instead of looking for someone else to fulfill these for you, discover what changes when you begin having them with yourself first. Let's explore: •⁠ ⁠How fairy tales and cultural expectations shape what we think love should be •⁠ ⁠The difference between choosing a relationship from need vs. choosing it from joy •⁠ ⁠The 5 Elements of Intimacy: Trust, Honor, Allowance, Gratitude, and Vulnerability •⁠ ⁠Simone's daily Post-It note tool for your bathroom mirror •⁠ ⁠Daily clearing questions to ask while brushing your teeth •⁠ ⁠How to apply the 5 elements to your body, business, money, and friendships Because maybe you don’t NEED a relationship. Maybe you could just CHOOSE one. Relationships Done Different is an open invitation to clear out judgment and welcome true intimacy into every area of your life—including family, business, money, partners, your body, and the earth. Explore Relationships Done Different classes & tools: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/e... Learn more about Access Consciousness®️ clearings: https://www.theclearingstatement.com Access more tools with Simone Milasas: https://www.simonemilasas.com Relationships Done Different is a specialty program of Access Consciousness®️. #RelationshipsDoneDifferent #SimoneMilasas #Relationships #Intimacy #Honor #Vulnerability #Gratitude #Trust #Allowance #AccessConsciousness #SelfLove #PersonalGrowth 00:00 Maybe You Don’t Need a Relationship 00:36 Simone’s Old Point of View: “I Don’t Do Relationship” 00:52 How Conclusions Limit What You Can Receive 02:02 The Fairy Tale Lie of Needing Someone to Complete You 02:59 Intro to the 5 Elements of Intimacy 04:00 What If You Started Having the 5 Elements with YOU? 05:14 The Post-It Note Tool for Your Bathroom Mirror 06:46 Daily Questions to Ask Yourself 07:42 What Are You Avoiding by Not Choosing Yourself? 08:35 Applying the 5 Elements to Money, Business, and Body 09:32 What If It Was Time to Stop Lying to Yourself? 10:13 Moving Out of Need and Into Choice (The 20X Rule)