Your Suffering Is Just Unmet Expectations

You keep expecting people to show up a certain way, and they don't, and that's where your suffering actually comes from. In this one, I'm talking about the difference between judgment and acceptance, why removing the expectation removes the suffering, and how I learned to stop trying to change someone I couldn't get rid of and instead accept who she actually is. This is for anyone still waiting on people to become who you need them to be. Read more reflections on Substack: faiecleveland.substack.com