Being a Loser Is Actually the Goal

#GrowingUp #Friendships #FOMO 0:00 Boring Is Back, Bro 1:39 We Just Grew Apart 3:07 My Plan Was Nothing 8:55 Small Circle, Real Ones 10:50 Instagram Ruined My Takeaway 14:40 I Can Live With Boring Maybe the “boring” people had it right all along. The older I get, the less interested I am in having loads of friends, going out every weekend, constantly having plans and trying to make my life look exciting. I’ve lost friendships as I’ve changed. Not because of some massive argument or drama, but because I stopped wanting the same things. And weirdly, having a smaller circle and a quieter life has made me question what we actually mean when we say someone is “winning” at life. Why are we so scared of being boring? Why does staying home feel like you’re missing out? And when did having fewer friends become something we’re supposed to feel bad about? Maybe growing up isn’t about getting more. Maybe it’s realizing what you don’t need anymore. This is about friendships, FOMO, partying, social media, getting older and learning that a peaceful life might actually be better than an impressive one.