Why nobody believes the scapegoat

Within the insanity of the dysfunctional family unit the scapegoat child is labelled as 'bad' and 'wrong'. Their 'badness' is fabricated and a lie but the family buy into it. One person MUST take a hit for the team and be a container for the shame. I recorded this video to answer the question sent in to me - “I’d love to see a video on why no-one believes us, what the impact of that is on us, what to do when we feel no-one is there to have our back or stick up for us.” TIME STAMPS: 00:00 Why nobody believes the scapegoat 01:02 What are the parents motivation to create a scapegoat? 05.10 The dilemma for the scapegoat child 05:52 The impact on the scapegoat child 12:12 What do we do when nobody has our back? 19:51 Conclusion *** My Website: https://www.marytoolan.com My 1:1 specialist recovery program here: https://www.marytoolan.com/coaching Facebook:   / scapegoatchildrecovery   Instagram:   / scapegoatchildrecovery