What You Came Here to Create | Episode 13 | How to stop comparing your journey to others

Do you ever find yourself scrolling through social media, looking at what other people are achieving and wondering why you’re not further ahead? In this episode of What You Came Here to Create, I’m talking about comparison, why it can keep us stuck, and how to stop looking sideways so you can focus your energy on your own work and the path you’re here to follow. I share how comparison can become another form of resistance, particularly when we look at someone who is further ahead and assume they have something we don’t. We’ll explore how to turn comparison into curiosity instead, using the people who inspire you as ‘expanders’ and as evidence of what might also be possible for you. I’ll also talk about recognising jealousy and envy as useful information, remembering that we’re often comparing ourselves to someone else’s visible results rather than the years of work behind them, and learning to notice those moments of insecurity, take back your power and choose again. Because getting out of your own way doesn’t mean you’ll never compare yourself, procrastinate or second-guess what you’re doing. It’s about bringing your attention back to your own path, taking the next imperfect step and building self-belief through action as you create the work that is uniquely yours to put into the world. If you love this episode, I would be so grateful if you would subscribe, leave a review and share it with a friend. Visit https://www.cameheretocreate.com to order my new book What You Came Here to Create: A Guide to Being Confidently Visible and Unlocking Your Potential and receive the Visible Unicorn Challenge as a special gift.