40岁离婚后被金融男杀猪盘骗了｜悉尼单亲妈妈7个月骗局 Scammed by Finance Guy After Divorce

分居后，我遇到了杀猪盘，被骗了XXX。 这个故事，我挣扎了7个月，终于决定说出来。 我曾经以为自己足够清醒，足够理性，足够刀枪不入。可是在40岁离婚后，作为一个单亲妈妈，在重新相信爱情、重新进入dating世界的时候，我还是被一个看起来完美的“金融男”骗了钱，也骗了感情。 他有完美的LinkedIn履历，有金融背景，有豪宅故事，有名表，有孩子，有早安晚安，有玫瑰，有漂亮饭，也有一个看起来非常真实的父亲形象。 我以为我遇到了命中注定。 后来才知道，那可能只是一个精心设计的人设。 这条视频不是为了博同情，也不是为了证明我有多惨。 我想说出来，是因为我不想有更多单亲妈妈、离婚女性，或者正在重新相信爱情的女人，被同样的套路骗进去。 一个男人对你好，不是看他说了多少早安晚安，也不是看他带你吃了多少漂亮饭，而是看他是否诚实、稳定、持续、说到做到。 这件事让我付出了代价，但也让我重新建立了自己的择偶标准和安全感。 希望我的经历，可以成为别人的提醒。 After separating from my ex-husband, I became the victim of a romance scam. This is a story I struggled with for 7 months before finally deciding to share it publicly. I used to think I was strong, logical, independent and impossible to fool. But after turning 40, going through separation, raising two children as a single mum, and slowly opening myself up to dating again, I was scammed by someone I thought I could trust. He had the perfect story. A finance background. A polished LinkedIn profile. A beautiful home. Luxury watches. Two children. Good morning texts every day. Flowers. Fine dining. And the image of a responsible, loving father. I thought I had met someone meaningful. I thought it was fate. But eventually, I realised it may have been a carefully designed persona. This video is not about asking for sympathy. It is not about playing the victim. I am sharing this because I don’t want more single mothers, divorced women, or women who are trying to believe in love again, to fall into the same trap. A man’s love is not proven by daily good morning messages. It is not proven by flowers, expensive dinners or beautiful words. It is proven by honesty, consistency, accountability, and whether his actions match his promises. This experience cost me money, trust and emotional safety. But it also forced me to rebuild my standards, my boundaries and my understanding of what real love should feel like. If my story can warn even one woman, then speaking about it is worth it. I’m Sissi @missing_person_sissi (Instagram) — a mom of two who became single at 39 in July 2024, and started documenting my journey through the wild, hilarious, and eye-opening world of dating as a single woman in her late 30s. This channel is more than just dating stories—it's a space for feminine empowerment, self-love, and real talk about relationships. Through personal vlogs, storytelling, and honest reflections, I share the ups, the downs, the red flags, the green lights—and all the growth in between. Whether you’re healing from a breakup, stepping back into the dating world, or just need a reminder that you are enough, this space is for you. 🎥 Expect vulnerable moments, cheeky humour, emotional lessons, and practical advice to help you move your relationships—and your self-worth—forward. ✨ Because being single isn’t a setback. It’s a reset. Subscribe to join this beautifully messy, inspiring ride.