Crucial Questions to Ask a Potential Spouse Before Marriage
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Crucial Questions to Ask a Potential Spouse Before Marriage
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Marriage 101 Series: Episode 04 - Crucial Questions to Ask a Potential Spouse Before Marriage
In this episode, I address a matter that always comes up from both brothers and sisters when trying to find a spouse and that is, "how do I really get to know the reality of someone just by asking them questions?"
The simple answer is, that only Allah truly knows the true reality, however in this video I mention several questions that you may ask in order to find out exactly what you need to find out about someone and make an informed decision about whether or not you can see yourself living with this person and building a life with them.
Before I get into the actual questions, I give some key advices and guidelines on the questioning process itself. Basically, the dos and donts as it pertains to the questions you ask and the answers you receive.
I then break down the actual questions into 6 different categories with each category having several examples of questions. The idea behind this categorization was to try and cover the different aspects of marriage life.
00:00 - Introduction
06:20 - Questions That Will Tell you About Someone’s Personality
30:59 - Questions That Will Tell You About Someone’s Mentality
32:55 - Questions That Will Tell you About Their Family Dynamic
41:26 - Questions That Will Tell you About Their Philosophy of Raising Children
53:08 - Questions About Beliefs of the Religion
56:37 - Questions About Specific Marriage Scenarios
57:42 - Crucial Questions Brothers Should Ask Sisters & Vice Versa
1:22:33 - Questions That Sisters Should Ask Brothers
1:25:57 - Conclusion - Detrimental Effects of Lack of Preparation for Marriage