The Cheat Code to Getting Everything You Want

What if the secret to getting everything you want in life is to stop chasing it? Money, relationships, success, opportunities — desperation usually pushes things further away. In this video, I talk about becoming the kind of person who attracts opportunities instead of constantly running behind them. Stop chasing. Start building yourself. Let the results follow. If you’re in your 20s and trying to figure out life, career, money and relationships — this one is for you. Subscribe for more videos on life, money, business, self-improvement and everything I’m learning along the way. 0:00 - Why you should never be desperate in life 0:33 - Desperation around girls — how it kills your value 1:16 - The more you chase, the more respect you lose 2:05 - Work on yourself — that's what actually attracts people 3:31 - Fashion society story — joined it for a girl 4:27 - Participated in show with zero prep — won anyway 6:11 - The desperate modelling guy vs the chill guy 7:03 - Desperate about modelling = never made it 7:22 - The girl story — ego hurt but didn't show desperation 8:10 - How modelling actually started — Club House app 9:16 - Never desperate about modelling — that's why it happened 10:16 - Never be desperate about opportunities either 10:29 - Agency said content will reduce shoots — ignored them 11:06 - Build your surface area — let people know who you are 12:31 - Got hired via Instagram, not a resume 13:18 - Never applied for a job — all through connections 14:08 - First job: left Indus Valley Partners in 4 days 15:10 - Second job: 3AM meetings, quit on day 4 16:33 - Third job: XL Insurance, no exit opportunity 18:23 - Left XL, started freelancing and content creation 19:31 - Met Sri Dhar at WeWork — next opportunity found 20:09 - Joined early stage investment fund via table tennis 21:04 - Animal.com story — missed a unicorn investment 23:32 - Fund shut down — what happened next 24:53 - HSBC Mumbai — 9 months, too hectic, left 24:45 - Went full-time YouTube + Instagram after HSBC 25:06 - GUAPD: no desperation — right people will come 25:45 - One solution to everything: be chill in the present 26:16 - Desperation shows on your face — people can see it 26:31 - Manish Malhotra show — negotiated and walked away 28:53 - Make yourself valuable — competition is everywhere 29:29 - Women get 50 DMs, men get zero — work on yourself 35:22 - Kabir doha + third person perspective explained 36:11 - McKinsey framework: think as consumer, not founder 37:05 - First GUAPD client meeting today — wish us luck 37:27 - Azelaic acid + moisturiser + sunscreen routine ```