Why The Hidden Cost Of Compassion Fatigue Is Draining Your Faith & Stealing Your Identity [with L...

In this episode, Lisa Ackland Carriere — founder of The Writing Well and writer at The Daily Calling on Substack — joins us to talk about the side of caregiving no one signs up for. When caregiving is forced on you by circumstance rather than chosen as a profession, compassion fatigue can quietly take root, leaving you emotionally shut down and disconnected from your own identity. Lisa shares her personal journey through years of layered crisis — parenting a son with ADD, developmental delays, and learning disabilities; a move that strained her marriage; the sudden loss of her mother; her brother's brain cancer diagnosis and death; and her husband's subsequent pancreatic cancer diagnosis. We talk about what compassion fatigue really looks like for caregivers — nurses and everyday women alike — how God reframes identity and purpose through the caregiving journey, and practical ways to support a caregiver both in the thick of crisis and in the aftermath, whatever the outcome. In This Episode: • What compassion fatigue is and how it accumulates over years of caregiving for a loved one who needs ongoing, difficult care • Lisa's story: a son with developmental and learning challenges, a marital rift after relocating for his schooling, and a cascade of loss — her mother, her brother, and her husband's health • The difference between caregiving as a chosen profession and caregiving that's simply your life • How identity gets buried under years of "just showing up," and how it can be reclaimed • How God reframes purpose and identity in the middle of caregiving crisis • Practical ways to support a caregiver mid-crisis • Practical ways to support a caregiver after the crisis — whether their loved one survived or passed away About Lisa Ackland Carriere: Lisa Ackland Carriere is the founder and director of The Writing Well, providing writing services and collaborative partnerships to professionals. Her business grew out of her 20-year career as a college English instructor and as a writer and communicator for global ministries. She also writes for Christian women on Substack at The Daily Calling with Lisa Ackland Carriere. Connect with Lisa: • Website: lisaacklandcarriere.com • The Writing Well: thewritingwellconsulting.com • Substack: substack.com/@lisaacklandcarriere Ready for a life-changing conversation? Book your complimentary stress assessment and get personalized tools you can use — even in the middle of a 12-hour shift. Book today! (https://calendly.com/theshanwright/qu...) (complimentary, but spaces fill fast)  Shalom Shalom,  Xx, Shan  ……CONNECT…… The STAT Protocol (http://www.theshanwright.com/stat) : 5 min Emergency Reset Take the Free QUIZ (https://www.theshanwright.com/quiz) -  Are you in burnout or just stressed?? Stress Assessment (free) (https://calendly.com/theshanwright/qu...) - get to the root of your stress 💖Anti-Aging Power 3!! (https://us.shaklee.com/en_US/shanwrig...) -my top tools for Longevity! 🙌STEADY (https://www.theshanwright.com/steady) : group coaching program 🎉Nurse Burnout Prevention group - fb community (http://bit.ly/courageousvillage) Disclaimer: Information given within the podcast is not intended for medical advice, rather advice and encouragement for developing wellness habits for healthy living.