More Couples Are Living SEPARATELY—Now I Understand Why

Living Apart Together (LAT) relationships are becoming more common, especially among couples over 50—but 15 years ago, I was not a fan of the idea. Today, I completely understand it. After marriage, divorce, retirement, empty nesting, and learning to truly enjoy living on my own, my perspective has changed in ways I never expected. In this video, I share why I changed my mind, what the research says about couples who choose separate homes, and why this growing relationship trend is making more sense to me than ever before. This isn't about saying one relationship is better than another. It's about recognizing that our priorities, our experiences, and even our definition of love can change as we move into our second act. 💬 I'd love to hear from you: If you met the perfect partner tomorrow, would you want to live together...or would you rather each keep your own home?