Divorce, empaths and ethical ****

Miquita shares how she helped Lily through a high-stakes divorce. They’re hard. And horrible. So Jordan asks why it’s easier to get married than go through the legal drama of separation. And a heads up that in this episode we talk about sexual themes you might find distressing. Do take care when listening. That’s because there’s big news in the world of online porn, as the government has announced content showing ‘choking’ or incest will be banned. Jordan and Miquita reflect on how their own porn habits have changed throughout their lives. Plus, Jordan has been getting mad at people calling themselves ‘empaths’. Surely, empathy is a feeling we should all nurture? 00:00 Jordan vs Cicadas 00:27 Sponsor messages 03:41 Lily is in town 04:39 Why ‘empaths’ are annoying Jordan 09:00 When empathy becomes your identity 12:06 Verbicide 17:16 Sponsor messages 20:08 Divorce is archaic! 24:47 Helping friends through separation 26:50 To prenup, or not to prenup 29:30 Porn: the rules have changed 35:00 Ethical porn 38:40 Jordan’s sex scene experiences Miss Me? Is brought to you by: Wagamama - Head into your local Wagamama to try Fish and Chip Ramen today. Ecover - Make the clothes you love last longer. Wear over & over, and wash with Ecover. Head to ecover.com to learn more. Zenidog - Help your dog feel safe and secure this Bonfire Night with Zenidog Calming Gel Diffusers, which are available from veterinary practices or Amazon. Movember - Support men’s health this Movember: grow a mo, run or walk 60km, or take on your own challenge. Sign up and watch The New Bromantics at http://movember.com/newbromantics You can message Miss Me? on WhatsApp at https://wa.me/447849030711 Get bonus Listen Bitch! questions every Friday at patreon.com/missme Follow the show on instagram and TikTok @missme.4eva You can contact Miss Me? on email at hello@missmemissme.com Presented by: Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens Producer: Maddie Drury Technical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistant Producer: Katie-Louise Buxton Video Editor: Danny Pape Production Coordinator: Tom Jackson Executive Producer: Sam Michell Miss Me? is a Persephonica show