We Love How We Met — But We Rushed What Came Next

Did our relationship move too fast? We love how we met, but looking back, we rushed almost everything that came next. Within only a few weeks, we exchanged apartment keys, spent nearly every moment together and moved in together after about six weeks—without really discussing personal space, daily routines, future plans or what living together would mean for both of us. In this honest conversation, we reflect on why moving so quickly felt right at the time, how we confused emotional intensity with truly knowing each other and what we wish we had handled differently. We also talk about living with roommates, burnout, making drastic decisions and moving to Spain only five months after starting our relationship. Would we still choose each other? Absolutely. Would we begin our relationship in exactly the same way again? Probably not. CHAPTERS 00:00 Did Our Relationship Move Too Fast? 00:24 How We Met in Malta 01:28 The Intense Beginning of Our Relationship 03:12 Moving In Together Too Soon 04:54 Problems We Faced Living Together 06:02 Why Moving In Too Fast Was a Mistake 07:45 Questions to Ask Before Moving In Together 08:03 Do You Need to Live Together to Know Your Partner? 10:33 Intensity Is Not the Same as Knowing Someone 11:48 Moving Countries for a Relationship Watch our original How We Met story here: 👉    • inside our interracial relationship..   Subscribe for honest conversations about interracial relationships, cultural differences and building a life together as a German–Black Italian couple. #HowWeMet #InterracialCouple #MovingInTogether