Why I Never Give Advice To Women

Somebody asked me in the comments why I never have anything to say to women. Why all the advice is for men. The honest answer is that I avoid it, and this video explains why, and then says the one thing I am willing to say anyway. WHY I AVOID IT In 2023 I made a video about choices and consequences for young women. I was around 200,000 followers on TikTok and that was the biggest audience I had ever had. The comment section after that video was the worst I have seen. Men argue. Men engage. You can reason with a man in a comment section and he eventually listens. That has not been my experience the other way, and beyond the insults there is the part that follows, where somebody decides you have said something that cannot be said and the whole thing stops being a conversation. So I stay in my lane, which is men, because that is where I can actually do some good. WHAT MADE ME SAY SOMETHING ANYWAY The video everybody saw this week of a young woman being bullied in a club washroom. I am not showing it and I am not naming anybody. But flip the script. If a group of men had done that and filmed it, we would already be talking about arrests and a case number. Instead we got a public apology, and I do not believe in public apologies. Choices have consequences. THE ONE THING I WILL SAY Choices have consequences, and that applies to everybody. Healing is not alcohol. It is not piercing yourself. It is not covering yourself in tattoos because you are going through something. Those are not solutions, they are decisions you will still be living with at 30. And we should stop normalising the idea that the fastest way to get paid is to sell yourself. It has been glamorised into something it is not. The same person at 30 is carrying depression from decisions made at 21, and nobody who cheered is anywhere near her. The lifestyle content you are watching is being funded by something. It is rarely being funded by the work. Work for your money. Everything I say about skills applies to you too. It was never advice for men only. AND THE PART FOR MEN This one is on us as well. Build the women in your life. I teach my girlfriend what I know. Virtual assistance. Metricool. Social media management. Not because she asked, but because I would rather hand her a skill than a compliment. You cannot be making a million shillings while the person next to you does nothing but Netflix, and then wonder why things are the way they are. What seed are you planting in her? TO ANY YOUNG WOMAN WATCHING Preserve yourself. Take care of yourself. Respect yourself. Not for a man and not for a husband. For you. And none of this is about hating men. You came from a man. Everybody loses when that is the conversation. No bitterness. I am saying it as it is. CHAPTERS 0:00 A week of events 0:22 The club washroom video 0:40 Somebody asked why I never talk about women 0:56 Why I avoid the topic 1:45 If a man had done it 2:02 I do not believe in public apologies 2:09 The video I made in 2023 2:28 Choices and consequences at 19 3:30 The comment section after that video 4:23 The one thing I will say 5:01 What the clubs are teaching 5:23 When selling yourself gets glamorised 5:55 Why I have to be careful with my words 6:56 Healing is not alcohol and tattoos 7:55 Work for your money 8:40 Men should build the women in their lives 9:14 What I teach my girlfriend 9:50 What seed are you planting 10:22 Preserve yourself, respect yourself 10:30 It is not about hating men 11:00 It begins with you LEARN DIGITAL SKILLS Click2Skill. One subscription, 4 months, all the classes. AI, video editing, graphic design, social media management and AI web design. https://click2skill.com/ HOW TO BECOME A VIRTUAL ASSISTANT Live online class for beginners, 10 lessons from 8 October. The services, the tools, finding jobs, building your portfolio. Recorded. KES 3,690 early bird. https://click2skill.com/va-class MY WEBSITE https://elvisw.online/ FOLLOW ME TikTok:   / elvis_w_g   Instagram:   / elvis_w_g   Facebook:   / elvis.warutumo.g   LinkedIn:   / elviswarutumo   YouTube:    / @elvisw.5406   GET IN TOUCH WhatsApp: 0115 661 135 https://wa.me/254115661135 Call: 0758 991 116 Email: hello@elvisw.online Note: I only use the accounts above. Any other account using my name and photo is fake. Please report it. Related: choices have consequences, advice for young women Kenya, self respect, personal responsibility, building yourself, Kenyan commentary, men and women