On the Other Side of Your Yes | Matt Shetler

Episode Summary   In this message from Acts 16, we’re reminded that following God’s lead doesn’t always look like open doors and easy outcomes. Sometimes obedience includes closed doors, redirection, suffering, and unexpected opportunities—and on the other side of our yes, God may be reaching people we never could have imagined. Key Takeaways   God’s “no” or “not yet” is not failure; it may be his guidance.   Discernment is meant to happen in community, not just in isolation.   Obedience does not guarantee comfort, but God still works powerfully through it.   When you say yes to Jesus, the outcome is not all on your shoulders.   On the other side of your yes may be a person, family, or place God wants to transform. Key Moments   [00:32] Paul’s journey begins with Timothy and the first closed door as the Spirit redirects the mission   [01:44] Lydia hears the gospel, and the Lord opens her heart in Philippi   [02:34] Paul frees a slave girl, leading to backlash, beating, and imprisonment   [03:14] Paul and Silas pray and sing in prison before the earthquake changes everything   [03:41] The jailer asks how to be saved, and his household responds in faith   [20:59] A key insight on communal discernment: “we concluded” God was leading them   [30:19] The sermon turns to suffering, worship, and trusting God in painful obedience   [40:57] Final invitation: what is God asking you to say yes to? Scripture References   Acts 16   Acts 16:1-34   Acts 16:1-5   Acts 16:6-10   Acts 16:6   Acts 16:7-9   Acts 16:8-9   Acts 16:9-10   Acts 16:10   Acts 16:11-12   Acts 16:13-15   Acts 16:16-18   Acts 16:18   Acts 16:19-24   Acts 16:25-26   Acts 16:27-28   Acts 16:30-31   Acts 16:31-34   Matthew 11:28-30 Reflection Question   Where might God be asking for your yes today, even if the path feels unclear, costly, or different from what you expected? Connect With Us   If this episode encouraged you, subscribe and share it with a friend who may need courage for their next yes. We’d love for you to stay connected with Lakewood Vineyard and join us for a future message.